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The Life of A Spiritual Healer...

Before your eyes grow wide with surprise, no it's not me. I'm far from it. I couldn't be one because I may not have the patience to deal with people's problems.

It's my husband, Nic. 

In the past 3 years, his ability to help people spiritually has improved so much from the time he learnt PVH in 2016. In fact, he has learnt much on his own with his own research and reflection and solving health and metaphysical problems. This has brought me to believe that in his past life, he was a healer or herbalist or doctor. This is just a continuation of his past self. 

When I say spiritual healer, what comes to your mind? 

I've tested this question with many people; some are strangers, others are friends and some are family members. 

Once I brought it up to a friend and she looked at me incredulously and said, "But I thought you were logical!" 

How does being logical be at odds with being spiritual? I was telling her that she could help her son who was asthmatic with PVH if she believed in spiritual healing. Her answer put me off. 

Do you see wifi? Then why do you believe in it? Must you see something with your eyes before you believe it works? 

Tell someone from 300 years ago that we can use a small palm-shaped device to send images to one another. That person may run screaming into the village and say you're a witch. And have you burnt at the stake. Because there is no such thing. It is not possible. 

But today you and I use Bluetooth and wifi not only to transmit images from phone to phone but have conversations with people in different time zones! When I call friends overseas, I tell them that we are all time-travelling. 

Who could have imagined that I could talk to someone in Hawaii easily and for free too? She's also someone "in the past" - 14 hours behind Malaysia so my Friday is her Thursday. She hasn't experienced Friday yet but I have. And so this is what today's world is like for many of us who don't even blink an eye when we use wifi. 

So why the raised eyebrows when conversations about the metaphysical arise? When I say metaphysical, what does it conjure up for you? Spirits, ghosts, beings, souls? 

Because that's exactly what Nic helps with. 

He didn't start off having this ability to help souls - let's just call them souls. I define a soul as an entity without a physical body. You and I can be souls when we don't have our physical bodies. To me, it's just how it is. Regardless of whether you believe in souls, they exist. Just like wifi. You don't have to believe in wifi for it to work. Souls exist so let's stop kidding ourselves. (Otherwise, why do people read ghost stories, watch movies about the supernatural, and scare themselves with tales from the beyond?) 

And if you think your intellectual mind is as intellectual as it is and you reject it because it cannot be seen nor measured, well, that's entirely up to you. It's not superstition and it's not old wives' tales. (And if you know me, my 4th grand-uncle was a spirit or a soul when he married his wife, a soul he had met in the afterworld. How do I know? My dad was their "adopted" son, as promised by my grandmother to her spirit brother-in-law. Anyway, that's the short version of the story.) 

However, people started to come to him asking for help with medical conditions that often seemed unsolvable. They had sought help from every imaginable doctor - TCM, Western, reiki, etc. And because Nic asks the right questions (he's a spiritual Sherlock Holmes) and deduces and confirms with the PVH healing wand. So here's the thing: everyone thinks it is relatively easy to use the wand for sensing. IT IS NOT. 

Using the PVH wand for sensing is the most difficult thing to do because unless you have adequate knowledge and experience, you will be limited in deducing the person's problem. 

I know so many people who think they know how to sense when they know nothing. Even I don't claim nor say that I can sense using the wand. I cannot. Sensing comes with great responsibility. 

The wand is not Siri and cannot "talk" to you and whisper in your ear what the issue is. It is a series of deductions and elimination to finally land on the "answer". So most people who only know very little (and these are the ones who think they know a lot) will give inaccurate readings! If the inaccurate reading doesn't affect the person negatively, it is still fine. But what if someone said to you, "I think you have black magic done on you". What will that do to YOU? Will you stay awake all night pondering who might hate you so much that he or she will want to ruin you? Will you go back to the office and give every colleague the once over and start reading more into their actions? 

Of course not every health problem is caused by black magic but some are. But some health issues are caused by souls. Some souls are your family members who have passed away and still hang around the family house due to love, worry or just don't know where to go; some are strangers you don't know. Others are friends who have passed on. But the presence of souls isn't good for humans - the yin energy is strong and can cause a lot of problems for humans even if they're your loved ones and you know wouldn't harm you at all. It's not their intention; it's just their energy. 

And this is where Nic often detects issues like this. 

And because of his digital tech background, he explains all this scientifically. He can't "see" the souls and yet he knows how to ask the right questions that uncover why they are still around. But is this PVH? He utilizes PVH teachings and healing wand and combines it with his own understanding of how the body works from a TCM perspective while staying true to the core belief that the body can heal itself, if all blockages are removed. 

Some blockages maybe just a simple lifestyle problem. Most Malaysian Chinese have problems because they sleep in airconditioned rooms all night, drink too much coffee or eat too many supplements. Once you eliminate the lifestyle problem (which can be extremely difficult for most people), you can start healing the problem area e.g. painful knees. Giving prana or chi to the area using the healing wand is what you need to fully eradicate the pain. Of course diet is another major issues - coffee is a big culprit for most. 

But what if it is not a lifestyle problem? This is where the metaphysical comes into play. Is it karmic? Whether you believe it or not, karma does play a role. 

If it is not karmic, is it caused by emotions, cords, souls or black magic? 

Some of the stories I've heard are stranger than fiction! Metaphysical problems mean you can't solve your health issues no matter how many surgeries you've had. 

If it is emotional (and many women manifest emotions into their bodies), it appears as cysts and tumours on the lower bodies like the womb and uterus and etc. So you may think that having surgery to remove the cyst solves your issue but until you address the emotional root cause, something else may manifest in some other part of the body. This is why women, especially women, need to keep themselves emotionally secure and stable. We embrace emotions deeper than men. We keep a lot inside of us. 

If it is a soul issue, it is imperative to find out why the soul is there. It can be caused by so many issues - someone's grandmother used to be a fishmonger and the fish souls now are on the grandson. Someone in their past life hurt a village of people who eventually died and now the souls are back to drive him crazy by speaking in his ears day and night. Someone who did a hit-and-run and the person's soul is back for retribution and causing sleeplessness. Someone said the wrong thing in the jungle and brought back souls. 

So it is true that we need to live good lives as in never hurting or harming others even animals. Many people don't believe in karmic retribution but if it's not manifested in this life, there are many other lives where it can manifest. Yes, karma doesn't forget. 

Nic calls this karmic credit. How many good karmic credits can you accumulate in this life so that your future lives will be amazing and filled with benefactors and good Samaritans? As we create good in our lives, we attain higher levels of wisdom and knowledge and use our good to help people (and souls). 

I wanted to write about this because the metaphysical exists but it doesn't have to be all doom. Keeping ourselves spiritually clean and adding on a daily aspiration to think good thoughts and do good deeds (it goes back to a Buddhist nature) is important. When you vibrate at a higher level, you meet better people, learn higher knowledge, and have better opportunities to grow physically, mentally and emotionally. It is when you vibrate at the lower level you end up with a host of problems and not just health-related ones. 

So this is what Nic is teaching - how do you always keep your vibrations high and your health optimum so that you never need to be in a state where you are looking to be healed? It is a combination of PVH plus his own insights into how the mind and body works. 

When a person falls into the "shit hole" as he calls impending doom and disaster it takes a lot of effort to crawl back out again. Why not make it easier - can he teach people and prevent people from falling into their own shit holes, pardon the French. 

For while it is exciting to be the hero/saviour jumping into the sea to rescue a drowning man, it is far better to teach you how to swim so that you never need to drown! 

That's my rant today as the wife of the healer. I even have issues with the word "healer". Does it mean someone who heals? Or someone who teaches you how to heal yourself? And no, there is no meditation involved. Mindfulness in daily life, yes. If we are mindful in our daily lives, we are in essence "meditating". You really don't need to sit somewhere in the mountains to notice yourself. 

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Nic is contemplating a different model for how he teaches his perspective about healing. He is now in a dilemma as he doesn't want the focus to be on sensing. Focus on keeping spiritually clean and problems will avoid you. Focus on doing good and the good will find you. Focus on appreciating Nature and you will be taken care of (so stop throwing rubbish into the rivers for a start). Focus on understanding that each of us is part of the Divine and be grateful and the Divine will help you. 

One thing about my husband, he never ceases to surprise me with his thoughts. Thinking is his forte. He will not blindly follow rituals and what-not and for that, I am appreciative and glad. And the fact that we're together is also pretty karmic but that is another story for another blog post. 















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